12 lessons in life most people learn to late

twelve lessons in life most people learn

too late to live without regret sounds

like a simple quote however it is harder

to accept in reality in fact there are

many lessons in life most people learn

too late it does not mean that people

are at fault and realizing it after it

happened it is more because the lessons

are often learned only after a

misfortune occurs here is the list of 12

lessons in life most people learn way

too late in their lives

these points one not being present the

simple fact of living in the present is

not as easy as it seems

expectations and future goals often make

people forget to enjoy the present this

happens a lot especially to workers who

spend more than half of their days

working focusing on the task and

believing that it will relieve misery in

the future does not mean people can

enjoy the present start being more aware

of your surroundings appreciate every

little thing around you and feel your

breathing living in the present is

really good for people to feel more

content more peaceful and less driven

to settle for less security is a good

thing to secure for the future however

finding security for the present is

likely to result in regret settling for

less applies to many fields from

choosing a life partner to choosing a

career the urge to settle for Less

occurs because people especially in

their mid-20s are experiencing a crisis

of goals and a balancing passion and

social expectations most often people

choose the latter because they want to

fit in only to regret their decisions

later in life 3 holding back decisions
try than never fully know the experience

some people experience fear and anxiety

even to the level when these emotions

take on an unfamiliar path or to try

something new because they fear change

as a result there are not any

experiences gained and we miss what

could be a stepping stone that will take

us to a better living situation this is

often one of the lessons in life people

realize way too late for getting

priorities right more people will come

into your life as you enter teenage

years and adulthood you start making

friends and eventually become

independent the sense of freedom and

knowing we have so many people around us

may lead to wrong priorities we often

prioritize friends more than family

because we have been with our family

since we were born and so their presence

is taken for granted people eventually

realize that parents and siblings do not

live forever once they have had their

time we only regret not spending much

time with them make sure not to discover

this lesson in life later than you

should five staying in a toxic

relationship most people stay in a toxic

relationship for various reasons they do

not want to lose a certain part of their

lives when they decide to let go of a

toxic relationship either with a spouse

or a friend staying in a toxic

relationship will only damage your

mental health and lessen your chance to

find happiness

may as well leave now while you still

have a chance

six caring too much about people’s

opinions there are certain expectations

built in society that expect each of us

to turn into something that meets their

standards however people are too unique

and diverse we cannot put all of them in

the same box or the same category

otherwise not everyone will fit in the

box sadly so many of us care too much

about other people’s opinions and

instead of living our true selves people

wear masks one of the lessons in life is

that the facade is not worth the time

since no matter what people do

others will judge you so it’s better to

be true to yourself 7 chasing money

instead of knowledge being materialistic

in a world where capitalism rules make

some people give up on education and go

on their way to earn money for a living

while this choice is sometimes

unavoidable people learn later that it

is also important to pursue education

and gain knowledge knowledge is

essential to sustain life in the long

term while money does buy happiness

knowledge can help you manage your money

to have even more happiness

make sure you balance feeding your tummy

and feeding your brain because learning

is timeless

8 not having enough faith in fate this

is the case with people who are

experiencing the low side of life in

this phase people often think that there

is no way out to solve their problems in

extreme cases some people choose a

permanent solution over a temporary

problem the fate however always has its

way of turning the chaos back into order

some problems are eventually solved you

either change or learn one of the

precious lessons in life after

overcoming the storm 9 being limited by

age in certain cultures people are

limited by age women are perceived as

passed their expiry date after 25 and

considered less desirable former

men in general are considered weird for

having interests associated with

youngsters only the truth is age is just

a number you can do anything without

thinking you are running out of time the

time is entirely up for you to decide

being independent surely is a great

virtue that does not mean you don’t need

anyone in your life ask for help if you

really need it you’re not being a burden

to people in fact some people are glad

to know someone depends on them helping

each other is proven to be very

effective in improving a relationship

therefore do not hesitate to ask for

help when it is necessary take it as one

of the lessons in life you do not need

to regret in the future 11 not traveling

the world traveling the world has to be

one of the best experiences anyone could

have while visiting another country

itself provides a fresh view and scenery

the important lesson in life learned

from traveling is the ability to

appreciate and respect different

cultures and perspectives it opens the

eyes to the unusual things we do not

often find at our homeland therefore

before it is too late plan to travel the

world 12 not standing up for your

beliefs are you afraid to speak up for

what you believe in some people hold

certain strong beliefs about certain

causes while you can see many people are

being bold others do not feel brave

enough they are being too careful of

speaking out loudly because they are

anxious about the backlash it comes with

there is definitely nothing wrong with

and it is relieving to stand up for your

beliefs

 

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